mental-wellness — Developers are always considering how to make things more user-friendly, but we don't often talk about how our own mental wellness can suffer in the process. Let's take care of ourselves while we're busy taking care of others.

Using an Optimized Notion Formula to Score My Habits
Using an Optimized Notion Formula to Score My Habits

Are you looking for a way to track and score your habits? Are you trying to stay on top of your productivity and be more mindful in your daily activities? If so, this blog post is for you! In this post, I will discuss how I use an optimized Notion formula ...

When You've Lost Someone You Love: Identifying the Physical Symptoms and Finding Support
When You've Lost Someone You Love: Identifying the Physical Symptoms and Finding Support

Grief can be an overwhelming experience. If you're struggling with the physical symptoms of having lost someone you love, such as exhaustion and difficulty sleeping, this blog post can provide some helpful advice. We'll discuss how to identify the actualit...

Neurodevelopmental Disorders in Adults: Finding Diagnoses and Treatment
Neurodevelopmental Disorders in Adults: Finding Diagnoses and Treatment

Neurodevelopmental disorders are a group of genetic and neural disruptions that are characterized by impairments in learning, social communication and interaction, as well as restricted, repetitive patterns of behavior, interests, or activities. While they...

Discovering my learning disability
Discovering my learning disability

Content Warning: Abuse, Trauma — This article discusses my experience with learning disabilities and how I have found creative solutions to overcome them. I invite you to follow me on my blog for more creative solutions to everyday problems....

Anxiety: A Story of a Cup of Tea
Anxiety: A Story of a Cup of Tea

An analogy for anxiety and how it can be managed. This idea was inspired by a conversation with a friend....

What is a subjugation schema: How music helped me break free of mine
What is a subjugation schema: How music helped me break free of mine

A subjugation schema is a way of thinking that keeps someone in a subordinate or inferior position. In my case, it was a way of thinking that made me believe I was not good enough to pursue my dream of becoming a musician. Through music, I was able to brea...

Review of Michael Singer's book, The Untethered Soul
Review of Michael Singer's book, The Untethered Soul

The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer is a book about liberation from the self-imposed limitations of the ego. It is a guide to living in harmony with your true nature....

What we call feedback is isolating
What we call feedback is isolating

Since Covid-19, I have been in a broken feedback loop. I think we have a related experience that we should be open about....

From a Funhouse of Mirrors: Finding Your Way in the World
From a Funhouse of Mirrors: Finding Your Way in the World

There are two mirrors that everyone holds. One mirror is depicting of admiration and encouragement. And the other mirror is a distorted echo of judgment and critique....

Working smarter with 36-minute playlists with frequent breaks
Working smarter with 36-minute playlists with frequent breaks

From personal experience, it’s easy to recognize that listening to music while I work is enjoyable. But I’ve recently experimented with how music can help me focus on my goals....

Do you honestly want to know what your problem is?
Do you honestly want to know what your problem is?

Sometimes the thoughts we bring to the table are irrational attachment to ideas ...

LinkedOut
LinkedOut

Looking for me on LinkedIn? Well, good news - it looks like you found me, anyway!...

How to plan your day so your creativity and focus will flourish
How to plan your day so your creativity and focus will flourish

The best way to genuinely improve mental performance is to understand the natural limits of our brain. By paying attention to your habits, you can learn to cultivate the mind to create your best work....

Install Notion.so as an App on Chromium-Based Browsers
Install Notion.so as an App on Chromium-Based Browsers

Recently, I've been using an innovative tool for keeping me focused on my daily tasks and priorities (along with a lot of browser add-ons for writing)....

What do you ask yourself during growth in daily life?
What do you ask yourself during growth in daily life?

Worry and doubt will surely strike at the worst of times. And it’s usually impossible to catch at the moment — it’s not until I’ve started acting and reacting that I realize that stress drives my behaviors or words....

Living through the social and economic factors of despair
Living through the social and economic factors of despair

They will tell you, "someone’s sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago"....

Why I practice time-in
Why I practice time-in

Each day, I try to spend at least 1-hour of time to myself in moments I've learned to call Time-in....

Unfolding the Reasons Behind An Illogical Action
Unfolding the Reasons Behind An Illogical Action

When I first heard this, I didn't take it to heart and didn't put much time into trying to understand it. With enough time, I've come to understand what she was trying to tell me – if anything, I hope I can help someone suffering from these ruminating thou...

3-months later... I feel better
3-months later... I feel better

With careful timing, I could scale off my antidepressants, and I'm working on balancing my mental health through discipline, routine, and structure. I'm finding success through channels that have recently opened up to me—channels that felt neurologically u...

Your Ego's End is an Honest Start
Your Ego's End is an Honest Start

I think it's a good habit to keep yourself grounded; occasionally it's helpful to let go. Allowing yourself to disassociate, you can see thoughts & themes for what they are—separate from your defenses....